Comments on: How to Respond When Life Throws You a Curveball https://themeaningmovement.com/how-to-respond-when-life-throws-you-a-curveball/ Sun, 09 Feb 2025 01:36:08 +0000 hourly 1 By: Things You Shouldn’t Leave Out of Your Life Plan – Landon Buford https://themeaningmovement.com/how-to-respond-when-life-throws-you-a-curveball/#comment-128862 Wed, 05 Jun 2019 19:55:49 +0000 http://themeaningmovement.com/?p=4131#comment-128862 […] be things you miss if you only focus on saving enough money for retirement. Life throws plenty of curveballs, and you need to plan for roadblocks if you want your map to be complete. Here are some factors […]

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By: Dan Cumberland https://themeaningmovement.com/how-to-respond-when-life-throws-you-a-curveball/#comment-107357 Tue, 08 Dec 2015 02:24:25 +0000 http://themeaningmovement.com/?p=4131#comment-107357 In reply to H.

Wow. What a crazy hard experience you went through as well. I’m sorry to hear it, and so glad you’re on the other side.

Sometimes just taking the next step and living the next day (let alone hours or minutes) is all we can do.

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By: Dan Cumberland https://themeaningmovement.com/how-to-respond-when-life-throws-you-a-curveball/#comment-107356 Tue, 08 Dec 2015 02:22:54 +0000 http://themeaningmovement.com/?p=4131#comment-107356 In reply to craig.

Hey Craig! i’m super slow in responding, but I’m sure you can understand 🙂

I had an intestinal volvulus, emergency corrective surgery, and then a handful of doctor-stumping complications.

Your experience sounds similar to mine in many ways. I think my wife and I are both a little traumatized by the whole experience. And a bit paranoid about possible reoccurrence.

Thanks for sharing. It’s good to know you get where I’ve been 🙂

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By: H https://themeaningmovement.com/how-to-respond-when-life-throws-you-a-curveball/#comment-106634 Wed, 11 Nov 2015 17:37:04 +0000 http://themeaningmovement.com/?p=4131#comment-106634 Wow – such an important reminder!

About 6 months ago, in a span of 2-3 weeks, I had back surgery followed by a nasty infection that left me immobile for weeks, I got let go from my dream job, and my girlfriend dumped me.

I don’t know how I kept going, but I find myself on my feet and marching forward.

It’s always nice to hear how others have battled back from less than ideal situations. Way to go!

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By: craig https://themeaningmovement.com/how-to-respond-when-life-throws-you-a-curveball/#comment-106630 Wed, 11 Nov 2015 11:45:21 +0000 http://themeaningmovement.com/?p=4131#comment-106630 Dan, I read your story and have been wondering what happened. So glad you’re on the mend. I had a similar experience two years ago. I was finishing up a light chemo protocol to treat an autoimmune condition, when I was bitten by a mosquito … Four days later, I was disoriented and confused, my wife called an ambulance. I remember being transferred from a gurney and slipped into a CAT scan machine. I woke up four days later. I had no recollection of my family, friends, even what year it was (I thought it was 2008). A week later, I was diagnosed with West Nile Virus. Up until then, the doctors had no idea what was causing the meningitis and encephalitis. It was quite a scare for my wife and my two girls (one of whom was 8 months old at the time). My oldest lived with an obsession with doctors and people getting sick for about 18 months — the only way she could process the trauma. My wife still experiences some trauma from my three-week hospital stay and months long recovery. Would love to process some of this stuff with you at some point. It has changed a lot about how I think of myself …

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By: Dan Cumberland https://themeaningmovement.com/how-to-respond-when-life-throws-you-a-curveball/#comment-106613 Wed, 11 Nov 2015 02:23:20 +0000 http://themeaningmovement.com/?p=4131#comment-106613 In reply to Katie Swan.

Thanks so much Katie. I often find visual representations of my internal process to be super helpful. I’m glad that one landed with you 🙂

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By: Dan Cumberland https://themeaningmovement.com/how-to-respond-when-life-throws-you-a-curveball/#comment-106612 Wed, 11 Nov 2015 02:21:28 +0000 http://themeaningmovement.com/?p=4131#comment-106612 In reply to Cathe Gill.

Thanks Cathe!

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By: Dan Cumberland https://themeaningmovement.com/how-to-respond-when-life-throws-you-a-curveball/#comment-106611 Wed, 11 Nov 2015 02:20:51 +0000 http://themeaningmovement.com/?p=4131#comment-106611 In reply to Jill Porco.

Thanks Jill! 🙂

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By: Katie Swan https://themeaningmovement.com/how-to-respond-when-life-throws-you-a-curveball/#comment-106610 Wed, 11 Nov 2015 01:20:11 +0000 http://themeaningmovement.com/?p=4131#comment-106610 This visual was SO good for me tonight: “Mindfulness breaks the cycle of stimuli → response. It becomes stimuli → choice → response.” A needed reminder when there’s lots of stimuli pulling at my attention and suddenly my days aren’t aligned with what’s most important to me.

Although I’ve encountered some big events that have similarly “knocked the wind out of my sails” what seems to get me the most is the day-by-day stuff that takes too many moments right from under me. I’ll be writing your words some place that my eyes will see often. Love learning from your experience and wisdom Dan. Keep it coming and congrats on the little guy.

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By: Cathe Gill https://themeaningmovement.com/how-to-respond-when-life-throws-you-a-curveball/#comment-106576 Mon, 09 Nov 2015 15:28:39 +0000 http://themeaningmovement.com/?p=4131#comment-106576 Dan – Great article, thank you for restating so well the importance of taking, and building in, time to pause before responding to crisis, or even annoyance. That hesitation, taking a breath, and grounding, mean all the difference in getting on a road to learn more about ourselves. And yes, the little guy is the coolest kid on the block!
Cathe Gill

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